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With all the love that we carry in our hearts for all Mothers of the world who have seen their children returned to heaven, this image of a flowering tree that if every one of you wants can be the bridge to heaven for their children.

A big hug Kyke department of Lena and father Quique, this Mother's Day.

Love makes you were born, you gave your first steps and said first "ma", "pa" and "baby."

Making love in the family that small room to teach dance to dance to the rhythmic beat of a good meringue or a sauce ...

How many days have passed since you went to school first love, how much time has passed since you made your own decisions and decided to fly to your destination.

As time passes, there are already six years ago that your body stop being the case of your soul and I give you the freedom that always needs.

How long ago was that you fell in love and read your latest book.

How long has it been since you saw in a sunset silhouette in the door of heaven love ...

What makes me love you gave me one last kiss, our last hug and hear your last words ...

When was that gave you permission to go to get your fate love, if you even need ...

What will you spend with your static glass chess awaits your next move.

But it hurts the time if you feel so close as ever, as if you and your body was at my side.

How long till my next dream I touch and join us again as if nothing had happened.

Even took our flag and in the way I put my knee on the floor, I tried to stop walking and I have fallen to the depths hill ... but I promise that I will live carrying our flag high every day trying to be better, live better, love more ...

Love in your sixth anniversary again I ask God to speak and "FE" to continue our journey, and ask you lots of love and love from here, in my limited existence I'll give you a hug, one that unites us into one to continue forever our way.

May God bless you my little boy, I miss you and veneer only hope that when the day comes that you touch me from the door waiting for my arrival to you to show me your house and your wonderful dog to show me the secrets of life , to teach me to be what today you are, pure and beautiful essence ...

A kiss and a hug love .... Pope loves you.

Every day the parents have been special for me, I remember Lena, Daisy Kyke and doing somersaults to keep me realize that gift came from, and both Lena and Kyke long before the school doing crafts with all the love.

Days before the father every day I said to Manrique, mae next gift and to her best but ended up telling me that gift and it came to cost Kyke always keep secrets, I liked to press it and see distressed because he could not keep the secret more entrusted to him, and secretly making you promise not to tell anyone we told you which was the gift, what was the secret.

I've been almost twenty three years as pope, and to this day Father's day have been special for me, full of love and good memories.

Father's Day 2004 was unknowingly at the time for all the great Manrique farewell to all his people, your fellow s of college friends, your family close to home and all this to us each passing moment, each detail that was turned into the dismissal of his earthly life.

Father's Day 2004 was celebrated by the school a few days before, on a Saturday family became familiar last Saturday we had with the kids, that day was really cute, full of games with them and we all tucked parents in those games with the kids, play with water and wet and also to those who could End up with a game of football parents and children.

The careers and dilute buckets were promoted by the father of Kyke, boys and girls were thrilled as I recall and the next week Kyke was boasting that his father accompanied him to this kind of games all the time. I think this story was the farewell to the people of the school, Kyke farewell to their friends, peers and I will remember all the love in the world, I love to remember those races and see Kyke happy, happy to play with me and friends, wet and very full of joy. How beautiful day and beautiful memory.

On June 20, 2004 was Father's Day itself this year, and as usual came to Lena and Kyke wake the sun just came out with a stud and jumping on the bed to get my beautiful children wake up and give me all the love as the Father's Day. I remember the gift of that time was a clock speed for the bike, and I remember it well because I use only the day Manrique died, it was almost released.

Then as every year my dad went to where this June 20, the family was that day, all the cousins and only miss the Godfather of Kyke Varo, that day's National Team played against Cuba and all gathered and Vitoria to sele all enjoyed the screaming and the stress of sele just tie.

So remember Aunt Gabi: "I remember you well Kyke, were sitting very close to your dad, sat in front of me, your daddy had embraced. All Pepi bothered by his girlfriend, the first of the cousins who had suitor.

Then continue to make jokes and you said something about the boy who liked Lena, all opinions and then we started to bother Lena. Lena of course do not accept anything that we said and we began to bother you with a girl. Your words were very few that day.

I well remember your smiling face as occurrences that told your daddy (Tio Quique) to your cousins.

It was a Father's Day we spent with the family, was a day where we spent very nice and you girl hesitated a lot.

It's time to go, the evening began to fall. We all got off the kitchen door and kisses and hugs, I like you, Kyke, I run down and quietly walked to the gate.

I remember thinking: "boy sees heavier, not fired. It is doing great, you are too lazy to leave "at that moment, when you opened the portoncito, we met again and I returned it ... to say goodbye to each of us and all we had fired, so ..., you, you were from and to each of the cousins a handshake, a kiss Ashley, a kiss and smiled at us old Nina a kiss at that moment I wanted to give you a hug and bother saying "Bandido not going to fire you, right ? "but I did not to take away the momentum and continue doing it."

That day the father in my grandparents' house was the farewell of them all, saying goodbye to each of them and what has been so good, I remember that day with love, laughter and full of love. Your smile was the maximum departure for all of them, a handshake and a beautiful day ...

After parting we went to the house of another one of your grandmothers, where Doña Irma, that day was celebrating the birthday of Ian your cousin who was like your little brother and how could it be otherwise for the whole family was that bounce received from you to them all.

Harmo a football game, even your uncle Sergio participated, and played all the cousins with this guy and they were hesitating great time, even I remember watching from the house of your grandmother's screams goal of you all.

I can not imagine a different way to say goodbye to you all, God led us to make that day a beautiful memory of the father, a beautiful day full of joy, full of love.

Days later I call God and you out of your new life, those final days were wonderful and I thank God for them remember with affection and very present in my memory in my heart.

After your game was very difficult to continue living, Mrs. sadness was installed at home and all that time was the most difficult time we live in, now I remember that was difficult for me to speak, I found it hard to breathe, and I prayed to God and you do not leave me Kyke FAITH because I felt it was the only thing that matters in life, was the only reason we had to go ...

Time passed, a year later and I get almost the first Father's Day without you love, almost a year after your death, I remember the Saturday before I went to bed early, at dawn of day the father gave me my first dream of you, my first dream where I saw you, scorch, cry and touch you, and we played together that much I missed the end of that dream gave me the answer for everything that hurt me the day of your death, your new responses and beautiful life, gave me all the love that I had used in a single dream. That day I woke up the father renovated, full of joy to see you happy in your new life ... and full of faith that reaches me today ...

That dream I have told many times, those who have served for hope, and me, has become the best gift you could ever give me the gift that gives me until today unwavering FAITH six years later.

My father has been days full of love for my children, Lena and Kyke and family, I would not change for anybody, I'm the happy father of my beloved Lena is our drop of dew, and I am the most proud papa of Kyke, a boy good people that is now free and God has given him and all his dreams come true.

Thanks love for each of the wonderful times you gave me as a father, thanks for all the love, thanks for being my son .... Thanks love ....

Como pasa el tiempo Ky, ya hace 20 años es que yo te conocí en versión carne y hueso.

Recuerdo que fue un sábado por la mañana y fue un día bello con el cielo despejado y un buen sol.

A little before noon, the biggest, most beautiful man is already among us, and as in those days you did not know what sex the kids came to me was a nice surprise, was born my partner and friend to share my name and our life.

Fuiste y eater eaters among your tears filled the clinic, I remember when you came out of the room where you were born that do not know if they follow you on your journey to the babies room or stay and see how your mother went out in the same room at the end Lena and I went behind you to record all the details of your body and your being.

Lena brought him a gift and she was super happy, the waiting was over.

On May 19, 1990 will be noted as one of my happiest days of my life, and was the same day I met you the day you first loaded the day they started an adventure together.

And not to change much as things are today gave me a dream, it is assumed that I must give you on your day of birth but not to change your long was I given a good sleep. It was really good after going on the bike, thank you love.

Surely there's a party today in the sky, a million angels accompany you, all chic @ s of van insurance Renacer there and the party will be entertained by Bob Marley, well ...

From here, in this limited existence that we now we and you do not, I want to send my biggest hugs and a big quieeeeerrrrroooooo you, and spend it celebrating your twenty years, let's see if the book arrives as you know .

Ky Pass it the best, love you with all your heart, Dad.

Today I was sitting talking by phone with a friend things work, that if the meeting schedule had passed, then we will do so eventually.

I end the call, hung up, and I was not doing anything specific, maybe I will just sit waiting, hoping only that, in the same act a dandelion appeared in the air, I do not know where he came from and the breeze was so soft flying as if it were brought into the invisible hand of someone that only one could see dandelion.

I followed the path and drawing some moves that made me assume that it would pass, as the breeze gently turning point as if that invisible being had decided to change everything and bring slowly started toward me, flying light and continued its path to a place I could not calculate its destination.

Throughout this journey of this little flying visitor did not move so as not to disturb the air of the place and let happen what must happen, I felt he was losing altitude and at first I thought it would fall to the ground and I prepare without moving to pick up in the air, the flight continued in a silence that was only interrupted by my thoughts trying to interpret that natural dance gradually died down and approaching me with an almost perfect when I turn my hand up fell on her as if everything was planned to happen this way they narrate.

Today I can think if I use my telling them to reason things happen in nature where the universe conspires to make me see this and come to rest this body in my hand ... but today I think and feel at the same time, today I want to be my heart who reads this ephemeral event as the same time, today what I believe is that it was the hand of Kyke who traveled and settled on mine to say "PA" and never be alone.

Greetings, potato Kyke

My knees do not move. My legs are numb and do not want to walk. Funny, is only ten feet to that room, where anxious parents waiting for me and desperate, and my whole body is reluctant to move forward.

Just two minutes, left the recovery room of the Trauma Unit of the National Children's Hospital where they lie two wonderful human beings, a boy and a girl. Together, they add to or eleven years of life. Both were hit by a car on the vehicle they were riding to school. The explosion of force that followed, their bodies caught in the chaos of cans. Their heads were mixed among the twisted metal. His hands, struck the sharp edge of glass. His back hit against the hard black asphalt. Both are dead.

I look at my teammates and his eyes reflected the pain of the loss of those who, just half an hour ago, they were little known. Their eyes reflect the frustration of one who loses a battle. They are with the weary soul because no one is never the same after seeing a child die, and less to two.

Now, as a group, we have no responsibility equal to or harder than face battle against death. It is the responsibility of being faced with a couple of parents who, with the greatest distress, we expect to know how their children.

The door opens and immediately two pairs of red eyes connected with mine and sank in the eyes of those who accompany me. A smile quickly disappears made grin on their faces as if to trick the body saying that things will be alright. They take hands. They could not be closer. With trembling hands, wipe the tears. His hands are white as all the skin from their bodies. Although we have only thirty seconds in that room, you can see his lips trembling and his knees talking restless. They are a pair of terrified parents.

Finally, when what should happen can not be contained, when I have the responsibility to speak out and crush the hope of life, my voice like my legs, wavers. How to do this? How to tell a young couple that their children are dead? How do you explain that today, come back and open the door of the house, they will find those voices calling Dad?

When finally released the voice and pronounces the dreaded speech, this man and woman open their mouths trying to suck the souls of their children. A cold wind, ice, stick in their throats and not let them breathe. In that hospital room, everything starts moving in slow motion. We look at trying to find a face that tells them they have just heard was a macabre joke. Looking for a face that tells you otherwise, they return life to their children and them. "

It is the end of this conversation when we hit another reality: the driver who collided in custody, but does not know what happened. He came from a party and is so drunk, so unconscious, so happy "It turns out that driving after drinking liquor was his usual behavior. We learned that he had already been arrested, but, what a coincidence, they say that it was a repeat offender.

Permissiveness criminal. Turns out, now, who explains to these parents that their children should go to a morgue instead of finishing your trip and get to school, knows that this is because the Costa Rican government is permissive and who should be arrested for using a weapon in public under the influence of alcohol, is on the street by the "poor" '

Challenge those who, to save a few votes, the party allowed to continue thousands of people every day take liquor before reaching their homes and driven to kill.

But they also challenge each of citizens who favor such behavior by saying "'. How? Now, you can not take even a sip "," 'Diay, then you can not even go to a graduation, ""' What a life! We can not go to a party "'as if all parties will be held in the liquor. The challenge for allowing this to happen.

I challenge every citizen for not having done more, neither they nor we, nor they nor I. Our role in society is not limited to leave alone those who govern. We did not have the courage, strength and fortitude to have a state of zero tolerance driving under the influence of alcohol. Citizens did not have the level of organization and value in 1980 was Candice Lightner, who, after facing the death of her 13 years by a drunk driver, founded MADD in the United States, which is an acronym in English of a organization whose Spanish translation is "Mothers Against Drunk Driving (www.madd.org).

We have to assume that our souls as Costa Ricans are also stained by the blood of every child, every child and every person killed or injured by conduct related to driving and alcohol, behaviors that could be stopped with a law really strong to allow prosecutors and judges have weight weapons to work. No toy laws with loopholes to evade responsibility and, worse, to evade the morality that, as humans, we must have the humanity and morality that, after defending or freeing a drunk driver, we could meet before a mirror and not feel shame and disgust of our actions and ourselves.

After nearly ten years as the surgeon responsible for the Trauma Unit of the National Children's Hospital and given this news about two hundred fifty times two hundred and fifty families, I can tell that some of us stay there, and that is worse when in the privacy of our being we know that this should not happen. I challenge all those responsible for these deaths to come and talk to these parents.

Marco Vinicio Vargas heads the Trauma Unit, Hospital Nacional de Niños Dr. Carlos Sáenz Herrera traumahnn@gmail.com

I am a young dad almost six years ago died because he was hit, a driver with his truck full of outrage block it and thank God my boy died instantly and his pain was hardly anything.
That day we drove to San Jose, Mountain biking, the two were doing sport every Saturday and Sunday.
The driver was not drunk, but had several violations on your record before and had left several people badly injured, was when I run with my son who scored their premier dead a week and had her way, and still driving as if nothing .
The prosecution did not find anything bad to do anything against the person who led the way, and I wondered how they can let a person drive more on the streets, I wondered if it was not enough in one death and several injuries to assume such a person is dangerous to drive, and should at least have made an investigation to establish if you know or not to drive, the result of the death of my son for this driver was nothing, pay nothing, slept in jail or one day, and worse still to this day continues to endanger the traveling near him ...
The des humanization is everywhere, who killed my son takes her to his side, the prosecutor saw the case as a number more, the police who arrived to guard the scene only worried because not touch the bike, and if continuing the Members, President, ministers, lords dam ... not cocky we are all responsible for the death of Christopher, the drunken culprit is driving his brand new 2010 model, but we all are responsible, including myself are all responsible because we have not required the necessary for there to be change and the killing is over.
Our family's death came in 2004, and from that day killed one person per day for issues related to traffic accidents, if the statistics are correct, says the press since the death of my son have more than 2000 people died in accidents, will then need to kill the son of a president in a traffic accident sounded to get something done, if the death of my son and Christopher is not enough I want to remember the case of children killed in one corner of Tibas park in a traffic accident, would like to remind young people dead in the corner of AYA on the day of the referendum vote in another car accident, I want to remember so many deaths that have occurred and the worst is that will continue to die more people who are children, parents, human beings like you and me, are our neighbors.
A sorry Christopher as my son, and I personally am frustrated and sad about what has happened, my son died doing Kyke sport on your bike and also this wonderful young man and the saddest thing is that prevention and zero tolerance would have prevented this death and many more.
Require the authorities to establish zero tolerance for reckless, to drunken offenders that jeopardize the integrity of others, ZERO TOLERANCE, ZERO TOLERANCE.
Finally, gentlemen, please do not forget to Christopher, her children who no longer will have more to his wife, his parents and brothers, do not forget Christopher and mainly because the reader will remember both you and have it close to his heart forever, I guarantee that you act in a good way to drive a vehicle and will do what is necessary for the change to occur in the laws and what is more important drivers.
Greetings.
Pope Kyke

How to honor the life of someone so loved as a child who has died.

I wonder if you can.

Today as we see everything that has happened, I could not do anything to make our present was different, so that Manrique did not die, return again and again and I see our way of life, that what today is seen as Yesterday was not normal, which yesterday was happiness and it is not, and what yesterday was nothing today is everything.

The details of our life time goes by an impenetrable mass, sometimes make me feel very bad about not being able to recreate them again, but I still have the security they are mine and nobody and nothing will change that, is the life I makes what I am and what I feel.

Honoring the life of my boy will recognize something like life again, is like being reborn one day at a time.

Enjoy life no matter how long or how much time is passed, enjoy and not miss any of what the road brings us, grateful for what each day brings and face everything with pride and honor to our children strength, hope and certain that no matter what, our love for them will always be a light to guide us in our new path.

Yesterday is past, I am writing today and tomorrow does not exist.

My God in your hands I commend my way from the day you called your presence Manrique. And I pray for love in my heart that my actions are only to honor those today who is in your presence (Kyke), so that my actions are to help those who need me and especially to those I love.

In honor of Kyke will present ...

We will live the rest of the world upside down, as if the earth was heaven and when we die we return to touch home.

We love you carefully ... Mom, Dad and Lena

So our end in this life we will feel the lack of Kyke in each of the days have passed, the year that has passed, but also and could give no explanation for this so we felt closer than ever, we have recovered memories and we have to see things that never died Kyke would imagine you could do it we do.

We arrived at Junquillal say we are here and we move, we dance with the memories and celebrate the life of Kyke and all of us.

This year 2009 has been difficult in many respects, but in another it has been a year full of blessings and company and all that good and the bad, the ugly cute and we thank God for being with us every day of our lives.

We ask God Kyke and blessings for all who join us in this life, we wish you all a new year full of optimism and health, strength to endure what we get for living and discerning about the things that we get to learn .

Happy 2010 to all

A Christmas Gift

Christmas dinner in our group Renacer and the gift to our son that this activity was proposed that we shared with all parents that gift, I think not satisfied with what I offered to Kyken, I have to confess that gave me the time to form a gift, you can not read to myself so that I look good with what he wanted to offer.

Been a few days after this special meeting and over and over again I thought this gift, and there is an idea and give me another to make a correction of my present and the ... Today I found a song that summarizes what que quiero regalarle a Kyke, y también a Lena y Daisy, y toda la gente que amo y estimo, y quiero también regalarles a todos los compañeros y compañeras de RENACER esta letra especial que a no es de mi autoría pero si de mi sentir.

On behalf of the family of Kyke, from Lena, Daisy, Kyke our beloved father and wish you a beautiful Kyke Christmas and God bless you, hug each of you and thank you very much for sharing your journey with us.

We wish them well Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

LETTER 'LIKE MY LAST DAY' As if it were my last day I live
in showing sincere love life
to mine as the quiero.como leave my last day I will fight for
dream to live without fear and live every minute as
intense, I will not wait until tomorrow whether this what I have.

Chorus:
as if no time, as if no time
I stayed a moment, I stayed a moment
I will show that I love you I'm happy
I have for you, as if your happiness depends on me
I will give everything for you, and I will make this day the best
I can live.

as if it were my last chance to watch you again
are the most important moment of your memory.

in the stress of life, the life stress
details escape us, details escape us
then forget later regret
sometimes it is difficult or impossible to recover.

coro:
as if no time, as if no time
I stayed a moment, I stayed a moment
I will show that I love you I'm happy
I have for you, as if your happiness depends on me
I will give everything for you, and I will make this day the best
I can live.

GOD enjoy everything I offer me
my friends, family and love and I'll make this day the best it can live.

.... And I'll make this day the best it can live

My memory is a maze that gives me Kyke images when they are asking, when I let my heart be the one that governs my being, my memory has recorded his voice when he was boy, and his voice when he grew up and God gave him a wonderful deep voice, I have his scent on the tip of my nose, I have his smiling image on my retina, I have memories as the cuts of our life that are my treasures which I protect and keep it in my heart.

We report a memory I have of always present, which is the most common sight, one of those memories that people have not seen from a child does not realize the wonder that is just be with them, this memory, this story was a summer afternoon, like every day go to school to take home, and the way we were hesitating, Lena went with me leaning forward and Kyke between the two seats accompanied us, as always enjoyed a lot together, and we were listening to music on the radio and the station that we started playing a song by The Beatles, Let it be.

I began to ask which meant that melody and lyrics of the song, I have it as clear as it was yesterday, and that means "Let it Be, and they had more knowledge than I of the English and the lyrics of the song was being translated.

"Let it be" ... that's what it means ... and we continue our path until we got home ...

Many years have passed since that wonderful day of remembrance that God has left me very present in me, and I thank you for that, for him so this, and not just remember the scene of our life if not for the meaning for me this conversation and phrases and words that were said that day.

Let it be said by Kyke, ... today I feel that since that day God spoke to me with this memory and speaks to me as if to say, as requested, as if asking, "let it be" a Kyke what had to be, which today must be ...

Time has passed and I remember every day, thank you for that, and that memory today, with this order you spent the time and stayed with me as if God knew it would take in future years, now not only "what let it be "a Kyke, today I am proud of the boy who knew how to lead their lives so well that God opened the gates of heaven.

Here Mansu Kyke potato, Greetings.

This week we opened a photography exhibition at the National Gallery as part of our participation the following document stayed as part of our samples.

Here Mansu, Pope of Kyke. Greetings.

Everything Changes

El agua como elemento vital para la vida en su camino hasta llegar al mar, va superando siempre los accidentes geográficos que la superficie de la tierra le tiene para que pueda llegar a su destino final, el mar, en donde se une al horizonte universal que esta siempre junto al cielo.

Nuestro espíritu en esta vida al igual que el agua recorre caminos empinados, algunas caídas, tiempos tormentosos, tiempos de paz y esperanza hasta llegar a nuestra trascendencia espiritual al llegar a nuestro horizonte.

La colección “Todo Cambia” rescata la analogía anterior para exponer nuestro sentir luego de la perdida de nuestro hijo lo que nos ha permitido aprender que todo en la vida cambia, que el tiempo es oportunidad de vida y de aprender, que de la más alta y terrible caída que hemos vivido nos levantamos honrado la memoria de nuestro hijo y fluimos hacia nuestro horizonte renaciendo como mejores personas.

La presente muestra la dedicamos al grupo Renacer de Costa Rica, porque en este grupo aprendemos a encontrar la vida verdadera luego de la muerte de nuestros hijos Kyke.

Y también doy gracias a todos nuestros hijos de Renacer que sin ellos y sus vida no seriamos hoy quienes somos: Kyke, Nanda, Alejandro, Johan, Carina, Carlos, Aron, Becky, Rebeca, Raquelita, Alejandro, Julián, Fernando, Marcela, Elena, David, Valeria, Jonathan, Howard, Alfonso.

Julián : el inspirador, el que trascendiendo la vida nos enseña que a pesar de las limitaciones si el pudo nosotros podemos. (Nuestro héroe)

Alejandro : Amigo de los humildes. Esto nos recuerda la humildad que Jesús nos enseña en cada uno de sus actos.

David : el defensor de los débiles, has bien no mires a quien, ama a tu prójimo como a ti mismo

Valeria : la luchadora, por la vida se lucha hasta el último instante. Ella es la inspiradora y deja un mensaje de paz y nos dice “Déjalo Actuar”.

Becky : El amor y la fe en Dios, la mejor amiga, hermana e hija, la que nos ha mostrado que si dejamos de hacer algunas cosas nada pasa.

Raquelita : Nos ha enseñado que se puede viajar en un rayo de sol y dar un beso por amor.

Rebeca : en un instante de vida, en un segundo, se puede dar amor tan puro que dure los años de la más larga vida.

Fernando : Sobreponerse de las vicisitudes enfrentando lo bueno y lo malo que trae la vida

Marcela : La que siempre encontró lo bello de las personas con solo conocer su nombre.

Esta es una pequeña lista de la herencia que nos ha dejado los hijos de Renacer, donde los padres nos vemos como espejos y compartimos lo que cada uno de nuestros hijos no deja como senda y con ella continuar creciendo hasta llegar a nuestro horizonte.

Enlace Renacer Costa Rica.